Negative emotion does not serve you.  Be selfish only to cultivate gifts that benefit the world.  Don’t fret or gloat over winning or losing, in any arena in life…always rejoice in the happiness of others even if you think that you are left out.  Stop being so human.  Let go of ego associated with a victim mentality.  Serve others out of love.  There IS enough to go around.  If something or someone leaves your life, you can not and should not attempt to control it or force it back to you.  It means that it