Who has put conditions on us? Is it not nature, that has done the job. We are born selfish. As kids we are given what we want mostly, though not all kids have that luxury, but as grown ups we have to beg, borrow or steal what we want. It is no longer completely a honest give and/or take. Nature and survival instincts have made us so. Still, when we grow on spiritual plane, we feel the inner void that no amount of begging, borrowing and stealing can fill. We look for love, knowingly or unknowingly. The sad part comes when we know that no love that exists in this world’s relationship is unconditional. Parent’s love for kids sometimes reaches that epitome but no other relationship is totally unconditional. If you help someone who needs your help, after some time, that same person might start taking advantage of the provided help. The worst part is, they also do not know when they start doing that. If you are extremely warm and nice, people sometimes mistake it as your weakness. They just start behaving rude. Again, the sad part is, they are not even aware of their own behaviour and reaction patters. If you look at the dynamics of any relationships in this world, you would find it is so superficial. The problem comes when we take that outer diversity and illusion as the real identity. We are not even aware of what we are doing. Sometimes, when you help someone who doesnt deserve your help, even then the same happens. They start thinking of you as some kind of a looser. The same happens with love. Most people love at least one person with all their heart in their life time, but many a times, they are considered total loosers because they are not just genuinely in love but also expressing it to a great extent. So even when we all want to fill that emotional and spiritual void with love, we cannot do it because natural instincts, patterns, structure of the world and its processes, keep us from becoming a giving person, an unconditional lover. In such times when I see the world’s relationships always looking up for more love and calculating the profit, I feel so helpless. The only thing that remains and can help in those times is to pray to God and ask for help "Dear God Help Me Love Unconditionally"
Sweet G:)..this was right to the point with "Dear God Help Me Love Unconditionally"..with me it is just giving what I can give as no one ever can ever give it back but maybe they can express it somewhere else..don't wish for them to give it back either..I have a coffee mess set up at work and everyone is more than welcome to drink from it free…all I expect from them is to see their smiles…I pay for it all by myself, sadly I will be leaving the Federal Government in 2 months and wonder who will take it over..probably no one but at least while I was in that office for close to 4 years everyone that was invited was always happy to see the coffee on and talk awhile about anything…I guess this is the reward you get of being unconditionally in love….as I see a path when I do these things and never ask questions along that path..makes a better transition of being that you become..Spiritually centered….enjoy my Dearest Sweet G:)
Dom*
Dear Dom
So sweet! your comment made me cry. Really! I hope some one would take it over and it will keep going. This time may be muffins/bagels with coffee for free. You never know.
Peace and Love
Garima
Dear Garima,
you are, for sure, not the only recipient of the Frisbee. Love unconditioned, when you understand its full meaning, always returns to you and makes you invincible not only in love, but also in all different areas of life.
I don't even wish this to you, I know, that very soon you are getting it all.
With love unconditioned,
Rouzanna