This week’s theme on How To Live Your Dream Life lead me straight to the one person I have always wanted to interview, my good friend and manifestation expert Hemal.
Hemals’ unquenchable desire to help others bring to life their true passion by understanding the law of attraction is undeniable.
My intent is that friends young and old will find something in this post
to bring them closer to their dreams.
Hemal, what started you on this path of helping others to understand the way of attraction?
Around 15 years ago I was learning in the personal development field, including, amongst other things, NLP (Neuro Linguistic Programming). As I learnt more, I found myself being drawn towards more spiritual and metaphysical perspectives. For example, I learnt about how interconnected we all are and how our thoughts affect what happens in our realities.
At the time, I realised that the term that described this best was "Manifesting" and more recently "Law of Attraction.” Of course, it is all spiritual and metaphysical, and inter-related. All in all, a love of how we create our realities.
How we create our realities was a great love of mine and I would study material that was out there in the world and apply what I knew and I would create my own techniques.
As my work has become more and more public and well known, people have found that by reading my content or listening to the audios, it connects them to who they are on a deeper level. To me, that’s really what it’s about. It’s about someone being in tune with who they are, and by doing that they are in tune with everything else, including all that they want and the path to it.
Hemal, if you could tell every child one secret that would lock into their minds and impact their lives forever, what would it be?
Firstly, I would say despite what "the adults" tell you, keep dreaming.
Don’t worry if you don’t see it in your reality just yet, do it because it is so enjoyable to be dreaming (of course, by doing so, they are putting themselves around the vibration of their dreams, even though they may not be seeing the manifestations immediately).
I would also say:
- Don’t underestimate what you can be or do.
Anyone that underestimates or limits you, is doing so from THEIR limitations.
- That you are no less than what anyone else is – and don’t let anyone make you think otherwise, and that you may be more than you realise that you are.
- That you are unique and have something special to offer this world, just by you being you.
For the rest of us, can you offer some methods on how to attract:
- balance
- health
- peace
I would actually say that these are all available to you and it is actually more a case of how are you NOT letting them into your life?
What can we do to live the life of our highest potential?
Follow your greatest joy. In any moment, follow what fills you with the greatest joy and love – i.e. whatever feels best, regardless of the words we use to describe these feelings – is the indication to you for the path for you to take in that moment. Sometimes we may not be feeling great, so find the thing that relatively feels the best (or the least worst, depending on how you are feeling).
What are some goal-setting tips?
Focus on what is important to you about your goals. For example, if you want a relationship, focus on the ‘essences’ or the emotions about why you want it. This is where the vibrational value is rather than the just the statement of the goal itself. The Universe brings to you what it brings to you based on your vibration. When you state a goal, it’s not the words that you utter about it, it’s the vibration (/emotions) about what you want.
So focus on the feeling behind why you want something, and build on that becoming a dominant part of your consciousness.
If you have the goal within you, it is only a matter of time for it to be around you.
How can we break down our wildest and most spectacular dreams into a series of bite-sized, tangible action steps?
In line with what I mentioned above about vibration, I would certainly recommend having dreams which are"wild" and "most spectacular", or certainly those that feel very good! Why? Because the more positive emotions you have around something, the more in alignment you are with it. And the more in alignment you are with something, the more a match to it you are and the more the likelihood of it coming into your life.
One way of knowing what to do is to start feeling and experiencing it as if you have it already right now and get into the vibration of it. Then notice what inspiration you experience. This could be to do something, or it could even be to momentarily continue focusing on it and to build the vibration and then asking yourself the same question and then following some actions.
If you are really someone that likes to have your bite-sized tangible action steps, then what you can do is work backwards from your goal and create the steps from it. So ask yourself what is the last step to take before the attainment of your goal and note that down. Then write down the last step before that, and so on, and work your way back to now. Thus, you are creating a trail of action steps from the outcome to now. This is a different perspective than creating steps from your now to the outcome. Both are valid and useful in different ways.
What can we do when we are feeling stuck, discouraged or confused?
Realize that these are momentary states rather than ‘fixed’ situations. Everything is always fluid and constantly changing.
One thing you can do is to just step away from things and to change your perspective. Things are not always as they seem and the reason it feels the way that it does is because of the thoughts and perspective that you have about that situation.
Step away from it and look to see it from another perspective. Also, step away from it and see it from a bigger perspective. Maybe it doesn’t matter in quite the same way when you see it that way.
The solution is to change your perspective and how you see it and get at peace with it as much as you can, and that in itself will enable you to draw a better solution to it.
When you change what you see, what you see changes 
Be true to your deepest desires and even though you may not necessarily always have complete faith in their attainment in the moment (or you may very well do!), at least don’t doubt yourself – allow yourself to be open-minded, i.e. if you can’t believe it 100% in every moment, at least don’t block it.
As mentioned earlier, follow your greatest joy in your now moment. On a deeper level, the Universe knows what you want and the path to it and it communicates this to you through your feelings. That’s why when you follow the things that feel the best, they lead to the things that feel the best. The vibration you have within you and that you follow, leads to a similar and consequent vibration.
Hemal, what do you love most?
This can vary from time to time in terms of the details, but I love being in my flow. And consequently, others are naturally inspired from it. This is something I very much teach, which is when you are in your flow, that’s the best way for others to be in theirs.
A final note from Hemal:
When you have a desire, that desire is a vibration.
The vibration itself has the mechanics and the ‘how’ of the attainment of your desire.
Do not think you need to consciously know the how.
Follow the vibration and keep your attention on it and what feels good.
Live and feel as if you have it. As the vibration builds, the people, the synchronicities, the “how-tos” will appear. If you are doubting it, the Universe will reflect that vibration.
Thank you for spending time with me. I really appreciate you and have for a long time.
I am sure many will find this post useful. I will also leave links at the bottom of this post so readers can get to know you more.
I think Hemal is right, a dream is not given to you without the Means to Attain it
Hemal is offering two free audio classes here.
One on One’s with Hemal can be started here.
Meet him in Las Vegas here
Always Organically Yours,
Renay Matthews
Renay is a nutritionist practicing in Agoura Hills California, www.elitewellnesspath.com
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