God’s Dictionary: Alone

By on July 9, 2009 in Relationships

Alone 

al- = without

+

-onus = burden 

      This word has a surprising etymology given the ways it is used ordinarily which are, of course, pejorative. Someone wise once wrote, “Loneliness is solitude made wrong.” When a client of mine booked a ticket for a week’s holiday in Paris, she was asked, “Are you going alone?” The tones she heard were a mixture of horror and fear— even pity. You can hear the subtext, “A holiday? Alone?” Why not?   

      One of the real meanings of alone is without burden, fancy-free, lacking cares. A rare pleasure! What a delight to go off to Paris for a week with no plan but to enjoy oneself! Indeed, all that’s required to live a joyous and meaningful life is for one—your Self—to show up.   

      The spiritual etymologist adds a deeper meaning here: All + One. Drinking her cappuccino on the Rive Gauche, I know my friend is showing up as her Self, sporting a Mona Lisa smile and thinking right now that she’s not alone or lonely for we are all one. Ask:  How can I allow myself to be without burden today and see what we are all one? 

Infinition: 

      When I am alone, I cast my burdens away lightly and enjoy my solitude.  After all, we are all one. 

reprinted from God’s Dictionary (Tarcher/Putnam 2002)

 

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For many years, Susan was an organizational consultant and motivational speaker guiding nuclear scientists as well as entrepreneurs into their life purposes. Some of her former clients include Westinghouse Hanford Company, Mary Kay Cosmetics, Gila River Casinos, and the American Nuclear Society, among many others.

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3 Responses to God’s Dictionary: Alone

  1. Maris July 9, 2009 at 5:16 pm #

    I like this analogy. It means much more.

    Let's Get It

  2. Noreen July 10, 2009 at 6:54 am #

    Thanks Susan, great post!

  3. mydomainpvt July 10, 2009 at 6:59 am #

    dear susan,

    LOVED IT!!!! Thanks. :)

    Wish you love, peace and happiness.

    Trisha