Alone
al- = without
+
-onus = burden
This word has a surprising etymology given the ways it is used ordinarily which are, of course, pejorative. Someone wise once wrote, “Loneliness is solitude made wrong.” When a client of mine booked a ticket for a week’s holiday in Paris, she was asked, “Are you going alone?” The tones she heard were a mixture of horror and fear— even pity. You can hear the subtext, “A holiday? Alone?” Why not?
One of the real meanings of alone is without burden, fancy-free, lacking cares. A rare pleasure! What a delight to go off to Paris for a week with no plan but to enjoy oneself! Indeed, all that’s required to live a joyous and meaningful life is for one—your Self—to show up.
The spiritual etymologist adds a deeper meaning here: All + One. Drinking her cappuccino on the Rive Gauche, I know my friend is showing up as her Self, sporting a Mona Lisa smile and thinking right now that she’s not alone or lonely for we are all one. Ask: How can I allow myself to be without burden today and see what we are all one?
Infinition:
When I am alone, I cast my burdens away lightly and enjoy my solitude. After all, we are all one.
reprinted from God’s Dictionary (Tarcher/Putnam 2002)
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I like this analogy. It means much more.
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Thanks Susan, great post!
dear susan,
LOVED IT!!!! Thanks.
Wish you love, peace and happiness.
Trisha