Cost
con- = together
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stare = to stand
A wise friend assures me that everything either costs life or contributes to life. It makes sense to me. We live in a polarized reality on earth. Cost and contribution are two ways to look at the activity of living.
There is a cost to life. That cost is the choices we make. If we choose one thing, we do not choose another. Interestingly, the etymology of the verb cost comes from Latin roots meaning to stand together.
And isn’t that what paying the cost means? We stand with our choices, we pay the price those choices mandate. If I choose Rocky Road and Mint Chip, I’m not having Jamoca Almond Fudge and Peppermint Swirl, right?
A lot of us are afraid to make choices, but not choosing is also a choice of a sort. Writer Madeleine L’Engle calls this “the terrible gift of free will.” I’d rather stand with what I choose, pay the cost, learn whatever I need to learn, and choose again. Ask: How can I become fearless in my choosing today?
Infinition:
I know there’s a cost to my choices. Part of it is to stand with whatever I choose and pay the cost of having it. I do so willingly because I know I can always choose again—and again.



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