Respond
respondere = to promise in return
As I’m sure you know, spiritual beings having a human experience are encouraged always to respond and never to react. I say, maybe. Sometimes the best response in the world is silence.
A client called me once to say that she’d cheated on her lover. I said nothing. Finally, she sputtered at me something about me giving her Hail Marys or some sort of penance. I laughed, and told her that’s not why she’d called me. She called to see if she would still be loved despite the fact that she’d cheated on her lover. Then she laughed with the sheer freedom of it.
The point was: what was she going to choose now? People cheat on their lovers all the time. What is your best response to that choice?
So, X happened, and now, heeding the Latin root of the word, what Y do you want to promise in return? The best response is always a way to go forward from where you are to where you want to be. My client promised herself she would be true to her lover from then on. Ask: How can I best respond to what is happening right now?
Infinition:
I choose my responses consciously today. I ask myself what I want to promise in return to any happening, and I keep my promises.
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Respond
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