How to create multiple orgasms in women
1. If you are a woman, decide that no matter how inept you feel in every other area of life, you are capable of responding similarly to women who are multi-orgasmic if you or your partner know what to do.
2. Talk to your gynecologist. What does he or she know that will help make your sex life more pleasurable.
3. Buy books that will teach you more about the full extent of female sexual potential. Read them.
4. If you are married with kids, take two hours on a Sunday morning and send the youngsters to a friends house or the zoo or give them some money and send them to an arcade. You want them so absorbed they forget all about you. Now you have to let yourself get so absorbed that you forget all about them too.
5. If you are a single woman go to a sex toy store or find a catalogue of sexual paraphernalia and buy yourself a few different g spot stimulators. This tool is designed to get where your fingers and household pliers cant. They come in slightly different shapes, angles and sizes. That is why you should try a few. They are also different firmnesses. The harder the tool, the easier it may be to initially find your G spot. Beyond that, personal preference reigns. Can I list a few sex toy catalogues?
6. Ready, set, go! Use all the time, toys and educational tools you have collected. Allow yourself several opportunities to grow from clumsy and awkward to surprised and delighted. There is no rush and unlimited joy awaits you.
Thank you Felice for talking about orgasms. ORGASMS! The most important thing for women to know about orgasms, and I am talking about the expanded orgasms that become continuous and lead to an altered state of consciousness, is that they are your evolutionary inheritance. The body's neurobiological structure of nipples, clitoris, goddess spot and cervix are all designed to work together to create incredible llife changing orgasms. These structures and the brain responses that come from them are complex and evolutionarily very costly. The only reason they exist is because they gave humanity a tremendous evolutionary advantage. There are no women alive who do not have this neurobiology.
Spirituality and meditation evolved from the neural architecture that gives women orgasms. You don't have to be a meditative master to have expanded orgasms just be a normal woman with a partner (male or female) who you trust who is dedicated to bringing you there.
On my website http://stuartmarkberlin.com in the august newsletter I have previewed the first two chapters of my new book Sexual Secrets of Tantric Kabbalah: Making Love. The world used to be full of love prior to the sexual repression of civilization and patriarchy. Orgasms bring love into the world. The more orgasms you have the more love will be in the world. Imagine how the world will change.
Women, demand your evolutionary inheritance and take back your bodies and your sexuality from patriarchal sexual repression. Orgasms, expanded orgasms, will change your life and change the world. You owe it to yourself and to your daughters.
love and light,
Stuart
http://stuartmarkberlin.com
I think the "G-spot" has been marketed to women, and (as usual) bought by men on a mythic journey to Camelot.
It's correlative is prostate stimulation in the male, or so it seems to me.
The clitoris is the go to organ, it's nerve receptors the same as those on the underside of the male glans. Same material, same nerve material density.
This was Kinsey's great gift, reclaiming the clitoris back from Freud's patriarchal nonsense.
Ready, set, go isn't really an issue for many . . . women were designed for multiple orgasms, but have been socialized by the Madonna-Whore complex in all cultures. They shrink from it still because of deeply hardwired fear: negotiating the boundaries between spiritual purity and animal lust isn't easy. And women have historically been punished for breaching social codes, for centuries, around the world.
There are the women who "have sex," and the women who take care of domestic goods.
There's a deep class issue at stake, as well, that's way too complicated for this response. But it usually starts with men's need to compartmentalize everything ad nasuem, and women simply have not had the power to question the norms given to them by religion, society, family structures. Since most of these norms are written by men, and are more often than not, they are entirely well intentioned, well, women get stuck with a deadened sexuality.
That's my short version.
In short, it's more than getting a few toys: it's questioning just about everything you've been taught about being a good girl, usually those lessons marking our adolescence and entrance into adulthood.
Maureen Dowd had a great line in the NYT sometime ago, "embrace your inner slut."
Indeed.
And I find it charming when a man tells me to reclaim my sexual power.
G-d bless 'em.
We all know there
Dear Word Bandit,
Everything that is in the female embryo ends up in the male baby because every male baby is made from the initial female form.
The G spot or goddess spot, does not correlate to the prostate gland or the seminal vesicles for that matter. The glands that cause female ejaculation or amrita correlate to the prostate gland and seminal vesicles.
The G spot is erectile tissue. The reason why so many people do not know how to find it is because they look for it before it has been stimulated. Just as there is a world of difference between a flacid penis and an erect phallus, a g spot is invisible until it has been stimulated.
Usually a few orgasms later the g spot is easily found.
The clitoris and g spot are both analogues of the penis. That is why they are contiguous in the female anatomy. If you are kissing and licking the clitoris and your fingers are inside the vagina and curlilng up, you will find the g spot on the other side of the clitoris. The g spot is also a growing ridge of tissue and not just in one location.
love and light,
Stuart
http://stuartmarberlin.com
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firstly, it's funny how the only times i've encountered a comment other than my own on 99% of the blogs i've visited since joining intent.com have been the two blogs related to sex. that's just a casual observation that is irrelevant to the subject under discussion here.
secondly, i don't seem to have ever encountered that problem. in fact, the opposite is true: i've never seemed to be able to stop making them come.
thirdly, the secret is multifold, but it includes a desire to give your partner the most pleasure possible, and that is merely the basest de-volution of the desire to render divine service to the one you love above all others.
fourthly, ever since i grew up, i realized that it's more important to me to make the one woman i love above all others orgasm instead wanting to make "Women" orgasm.
I think unfortunately you don't have insights into women's sexuality. It is mens job to make their femaleS get multiple orgasms in sex. Men have to practice CUNNILINGUS ( STIMULATION OF CLITORIS BY TONGUE) which gives women earth shattering orgasms. It is mens job to give joy, pleasure to women in sex. All patriots should practice CONNILINGUS.
Toys all are nonsense. Man's tongue makes all the difference.