Let your children inspire YOU to feel SEXY again!
Tip of the DAY from a Non-Mother but former child!
What I read so often in articles is this: "I’ stopped feeling SEXY once I had children!"
Or something crazy like: Question of reader: "HOW TO STAY SEXY in a relationship?" Answer: "Don’t have children" ??? what a bunch of pooop!!
To me it always looked the complete opposite. I felt having children made my friends turned fathers and mothers, become even more sexy. Ok Ok, after the sleep deprivation wore off:))
When I had the honor of carrying my amazing friend Juliet’s son to the park every now and then I got asked out left and right. It was amazing. YES he was/is beautiful and so I can’t take full credit 
)) but what I remember feeling was this immense joy and ownership of my entire being. I was enough for myself, content and happy because that’s what this little being on me exuded and projected.
)) but what I remember feeling was this immense joy and ownership of my entire being. I was enough for myself, content and happy because that’s what this little being on me exuded and projected.And that’s what attracted others. Children teach us THE JOY of being YOURSELF!
WHAT FEELING SEXY to me means is:
- OWNING YOURSELF- WITH ALL THAT YOU ARE.
- OWNING ALL YOUR BEAUTIFULNESS, HANDSOMENESS.
OWNING ALL YOUR IMPERFECTIONS inside and OUT.
YOU don’t have to like everything about yourself in order to FEEL SEXY.
It’s impossible!! But what you can do is LOVE/HONOR/ACCEPT everything about you.
You love your CHILD but you don’t always like it. It’s perfectly normal.
Your child feels the same way about you and as you know has no problem expressing just that:))))
When in doubt ask your CHILDREN. They will show you the way back
to the NOW your TRUE SELF.
BEING/FEELING SEXY = BEING ALL OF YOU and not making any excuses for it.
How to get started?
QUESTIONS to ask your CHILDREN:
- WHAT DO YOU THINK THE WORD SEXY MEANS?
- HOW DO YOU WALK, TALK, DRESS SEXY and HOW DOES IT MAKE YOU FEEL?
- DO YOU THINK YOU ARE SEXY?
- DO YOU THINK SEXY IS A GOOD OR BAD THING?
- IS OUR DOG SEXY?
- WHAT DO YOU THINK YOU NEED TO HAVE IN ORDER TO FEEL SEXY?
- WHAT DO YOU THNK YOU SHOULD DO IN ORDER TO FEEL SEXY?
- DO YOU THINK MOMMY OR DADDY ARE SEXY?
- WHAT DO YOU THINK WOULD MAKE MOMMY OR DADDY MORE SEXY?
Involving your children and asking them these questions will OPEN up a can of beautiful -not worms, but possibilities to get to know each other and also detect insecurities on both -the child and parent side. And once it’s out on the open you can start to find ways to address and deal with it all. The outcome may not be anything you expected but just give it chance. Just hear them out.
My suggestion: Turn it into a Family EVENT!
HOW?
- Call in a family meeting and announce that this weekend will be SEXY SATURDAY/SEXY SUNDAY for the entire DAY devoted to nothing but spoiling, pampering each other by doing things that only make you FEEL GOOD for that will = SEXY
- Everyone picks ONE environment-friendly -so our earth can feel sexy too, WISH/TREATMENT
- One person gets spoiled at a time, 2 hour minimum
It’s up to you whether you want to turn your home into a SPA only using what you already have in your house so as not to blow the family budget. Or put on a little costumed burlesque show giving each family member fun performer names, including your pets. Or take the entire family out for a Natural-Beach-Sand-Body-Peeling… The possibilities are endless and I’m certain your children’s imagination will reveal ideas galore. If you don’t have any of your own ask someone who does. If your child doesn’t speak yet, imagine what your baby would suggest to you.
Give your children a chance to SHINE and they will.
Give them a chance to spoil you and they will.
Wishing you all a SEXY weekend!!
love&laugh Patricia
a NON-MOM but former CHILD!
…share this if you feel like it – thank you!
There is nothing sexier for a woman than becoming a mother. Motherhood starts with sex. Pregnancy is very sexual for many women. The increased hormone levels after the first trimester increases many women's libido during pregnancy. This knowledge even found its way into the Talmud where it is said that it is a husband's obligation to make love to his pregnant wife EVERY DAY. The position of the g spot or goddess spot is evolutionarily placed not for stimulation during intercourse but for stimulation during delivery. Women who are not drugged during deliveries, which of course was the normal state for 190,000 years, report in large numbers of incredibly intense orgasms at the moment of delivery.
Many women do not even have orgasms until they become mothers perhaps because of this goddess spot stimulation.
Perhaps the sexiest thing about mothers is their expression of unconditional maternal love to their babies. Unconditional love is the best characteristic of human beings and naturally appears in mothers. This is very sexy. A mother is able to share this unconditional love and acceptance not only with her baby but also with her lover/lovers.
love and light,
Stuart
http://stuartmarkberlin.com
resrchmd@aol.com
Viva Sensuality!!!!
Thank YOU Stuart,
my friend Amy LOVED your comment. In her words, "That dude Rocks"
love&laugh
:p)
To the bone!
love&laugh and Love again Renee
:p)
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