Family relationships have played an integral role in my spiritual life lessons. God laughed when she allowed me to be born the last of 8 daughters of such a mixed, taped together family, I am sure of it. We all have different personalities. Four of us grew up in the same household, four others we found out about over time. My birth father was a “rolling stone”. He passed on when I was five with an un-manifested dream of having a son. Funny enough approximately 15 grandsons now exist and carry on his blood line. We are not sure the exact number; some sisters are out of reach.
When you are the youngest in a family you get the unique opportunity of watching your older siblings. Some of mine fell into the trappings of life, raised up and beat the challenges, achieve happiness, create lives or experience pain and death. Whatever the story is, you do get the chance to make different choices, or follow in footsteps laid out before you.
I am sharing this story to offer some relief. I have witnessed heartache on the boards lately with some friends. I share my story in hopes of starting a healing circle. If you have healing techniques, maybe you can share them as well.
I have one sister in particular who has lived such a full life, seen the world twice over, was famous in the 80’s and is terribly sick now, laying in the hospital going on 3 months with no kidneys, totally self destructed by her own choice. When I was younger, I would cry and be emotionally upset for her and certain family members who were self destructing in front of my eyes.
I have no tears.
When you understand that life never ends, love is all there is, the material world is always changing, and there is no wrong, it is easier to grasp the visual hardships of life around us and not judge the suffering or the ones who possible may help the suffering occur.
“Feel the feeling and drop the story.” Eckhart Tolle.
This brings a great amount of healing to the emotional pain body in us.
This brings a great amount of healing to the emotional pain body in us.
“We must remember, our life situations are not our life." Eckhart Tolle.
The Ego Loves Situations to Feed the Pain Body. It pulls our focus off of our true self, our power spot, pulls us out of the GAP.
We can create great emotional pain by being caught in the “situations” of our own or others. A better option may be to see it from the end the way we want the outcome to be and place our attention in a power spot.
Envision a loved one healthy and enjoying life, instead of sick.
Envision freedom for those captured, see them home.
Envision health, happiness and balance for those physiologically ill.
Envision freedom for those captured, see them home.
Envision health, happiness and balance for those physiologically ill.
Envision yourself in perfect health and doing what you love.
Envision yourself in love with the perfect mate.
Envision yourself in abundance and enjoying life.
Envision yourself in love with the perfect mate.
Envision yourself in abundance and enjoying life.
The outcome is up to the free will and the Divine, obviously. I just want to ensure I am feeding the dream from a power spot, not a low vibration pain body spot.
“There are two sides to every topic, you are either supporting a cause or not, just be sure you know what side you are on!” Abraham Hicks.
“There are two sides to every topic, you are either supporting a cause or not, just be sure you know what side you are on!” Abraham Hicks.
I hope with all the planetary challenges and situations happening, this post offers some tools for comfort in your space if needed.
dearest renay,
wonderful post. thanks for sharing this beautiful piece of sunshine. are you eighth child of your parents? thats counted very lucky in hinduism Lord Shrikrishna was eighth born, sages say that eighth born people are extraordinarily talented.
Wish you love, peace and happiness.
Trisha
Renay,
You mentioned in your post that you wanted to share your story to help relieve others. This morning I really needed to read your post. It was refreshing and invigorating to read.
Thank you.
Close your eyes and feel your breath.
BB.
LancelotduLac
all sentient beings are healthy
all sentient beings are home
all sentient beings are happy
all sentient beings are abundance
all sentient beings are bliss
the problem is not with the sentient beings,
it is with identification with the created golem called FORM.
cool Renay, thanks for posting, this is fantastic. These are trying times all round, everywhere you look people do seem to be suffering and in need of spiritual 'food'. This post is food for the soul, thanks.
Dearest Renay,
Your post has once again enriched our lives. What a powerful sharing.
The strength, love and deep compassion for life that you have gained from such a 'taped together' family is here now to bless us.
I love how you say "I just want to ensure I am feeding the dream from a power spot . . . "
I've had news of 3 deaths within the last week and although they were on the peripherals of my life, they attempted to effect me. Then, I shifted to my trusted spiritual perspective, felt the feelings and let it go and flow, replacing the muddy waters of despair with the clean flowing waters of newness, allowing the new life energy to circulate and gain momentum for new beginnings as I felt a surge to do what I AM to do.
Thank you again, my princess,
Love,
Starshine
Good Post Renay,
When we understand karma and know Everything Is In Divine Order, we see all pain and suffering for what it is. The refusal of one or many to learn the lessons gently taught. Oprah has a handle on this, saying when we refuse to listen to our little voice of self, the lesson is intensified. If we then refuse to listen, God uses a two by four to get our attention. We can also see it in the Bible stories. A stiff necked people made it their tradition to only learn the hard way. When we see the same attitude everywhere we look, we shed God's tears. If we would put a difference between innocence and ignorance we could then see the remedy.
(To multiply the following blessing, read aloud.)
Let us daily increase in: wisdom, love, gratitude, reverence, healing, peace, joy, happiness, laughter and prosperity.
Blessings X 10,
Ed
Thank you Ed, I fully agree with you. Great info from Oprah, I have never heard that before.
With Love,
Renay
My incredible Starshine, you always bring me to a power spot, just by reading your beautiful words. You are such a shining star in all of our hearts. I agree with you and love it…..when you say…they "attempted" to effect me.
Very powerful and I am sure healing to many.
With Love,
Renay
Your heart speaks in beautiful ways my dear friend Tamasin. I agree, we can all use a dose of some good food, I get full on your food too!
With Love,
Renay
This was my intent, and I am joyful to hear your reply, it makes it all worth it. I pondered before hitting the POST button not knowing if it would be really understood.
I am so ever pleased it was.
I pour perfectly balanced energy to you my friend. With Love,
Renay
Yes I am dear Trisha, 8
All females.
I am pleased you liked this post and have taken the time to share you love with us this morning.
Every loving back,
Renay
OXO
Wow! Thank you dear Samuel Booney!
This powerful offering of healing is well received and appreciated.
With Love,
Renay
XO
Reflection:
Renay, you know there are two meanings for the word "tears" ~ I guess they both apply.
Starshine
I did not know that Starshine! What is the other meaning?
Hi Renay,
A tear as in your eye. A tear as in the pocket of your jacket or the sleeve on your coat.
Smiles,
Starshine
HE He, silly me! I thought there was something I was missing.
It is so nice to hear from you this evening. Thank you for taking the time to write.
:0) I am just getting Connor down for the night, well hopefully! I have finally taken away his pacifier (10) days now…he is not sleeping well, which means…neither am I.
It was time though! I got him a special toy today…to try to help…I am sure he will still end up in my bed tonight.
:0)
Renay
XO
Funny, eh, Renay! We see words and we wonder, we see words and we know. I've been doing crossword puzzles and boy does that play tricks with your mind and your perception on words. My mother loved crossword puzzles and I'm beginning to see why. I'm having fun, a good way to wind down for the day.
My daughter still gives my grandson his pacifier, (he'll be 3 in Nov) in special ways at special times, but not consistently and often he will go to sleep without it. He really finds great comfort with it. All four of my children had pacifiers and they relinquished them comfortably without any of us having to lose sleep. Kids have a relationship with blankies and pacifiers, it's ok. Balance is the thing, I think. As in life. (grins)
Ok, enough of Grammy, hope you get your sleep tonight. By the way, I love takiing the time to write to you. It brings me great joy.
Love,
Starshine