So, are you unhappy? Frankly, who cares? Who cares whether you’re happy or not? You do? Then why don’t you just get over it and do something? This may seem insensitive or uncaring to some. Actually, I do care and I’m quite sensitive. I’ve just found over the past couple of decades working with people, that buying into individual tales of difficulty and challenges only serves to add to the burden of overcoming life’s obstacles and improving one’s experience of well being.
So, let me start with who cares whether you’re unhappy? Maybe you do. I say maybe, because I have met so many people who are of the mindset, "life’s a bitch and then you die." Not only is that person doomed by their own consciousness (we do seem to get what we focus on), but the rest of us who interact with this person also get to "benefit" from their "life sucks" mentality. Hang around with enough people with this kind of mindset, and you just may start the downward slide right along with them. Pretty soon, you may be a candidate for membership in the "ain’t it awful club." These folks seem to revel in one downsmanship – you-think-that’s-bad-wait-until-you-here-this-one kind of thinking. Or, "been down so long, looks like up to me" also comes to mind.
Are You Dwelling in Your Own Negativity?
If you dwell enough on the negativity of a circumstance, you will pretty soon start producing an increasingly negative experience to go along with the negative circumstance. And the more you dwell in the negativity, the less likely you are to even perceive an opportunity to make a different choice, much less act on it. Kind of – why bother?
24/7 hrs …. Work Stress & Relationships that Matters in our Daily Lifes ! We spend most 8 to 10 hrs at work , 8 hrs at our leisure/family and 8 hrs sleep.. How can we manage our lifes better ?
Lou Dobbs.