Passion Power: Keeping Passion Alive

Passion is at least 50% of a relationship. Once you’ve spent time together, passion is the first thing that diminishes. Quite often, couples become friends, which is great, but where is the passion? It’s gone! And the reason it’s gone is because you don’t continue to do the things you did when you were first dating. You take each other for granted. Don’t you?

Passion is essential in our lives, not only in sex, but in everything we do. Passion Power is a personal fulfillment, sensual enrichment program that will bring passion back into your love life. And, if you already have passion, it’s going to make it even better-make your love life just sizzle with spice, and all kinds of new and exciting sexual and sensual adventures.

So, let’s get started. Both you and your partner are going to have the most fun you’ve ever had doing homework, which is why I call it Love-Work. There are six weeks of Love-Work. Each week is comprised of unique components that I’m going to walk you through. Your workbook gives detailed explanations of the concepts as well as the Love-Work exercises I’ve already mentioned. There’s one final component of the workbook I want to draw your attention to.  It’s called the Enjoyment Rating Scale at the end of each Love-Work Assignment. After you’ve completed the Love-Work, I want you and your partner to rate the activity; loved it, liked it or disliked it by putting your individual initials next to the appropriate box. Then, explain to your partner why you gave it that rating.

Too often, we simply dismiss an idea or refuse to do something and provide no explanation as to why.
When we do this, we leave our lover out in the cold. By telling our partner, "I don’t like that because,"
or "I tried that once and this is what happened" we strengthen our relationship by opening the lines of commu-
nication and helping us share with one another as opposed to locking each other out. So, these are the
types of skills we will be working on over the next six weeks.

And, each week gets more sexually exciting-but don’t jump ahead! Because then you will miss out on learning the building blocks that will help you make the most out of what we have in store for you in week six. You see, it’s all about anticipation…

This is an excerpt from Passion Power by Dr. Ava Cadell. Visit the Loveology University Bookstore — http://www.loveologyuniversity.com/BookStore.aspx?a_aid=sward — to find a wealth of resources, including e-books and audiobooks, to help you have richer and more fulfilling relationships.