Still working on the art of self-approval and self-love, like most of us? Here is an uplifting story about that. Chantelle wrote up her personal experiences that involve pessimism, jail and ultimately her embracing the art of self-acceptance. This is great soul-food for many of us.
MR
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Margaret,
I have really enjoyed listening to you podcasts! I really liked the one about complainers! I am embarrassed to say I fit into this category without question, so it was really beneficial for me. Through a series of bad decisions and a rough lifestyle, I have turned into a rather pessimistic person. I loved how you talked about acceptance, it really struck a chord inside me. Acceptance is an issue I have always struggled with because most of my life I have lived with my head in the clouds, wishing for "what could be." Several years ago I read a AA story that stated "acceptance is the answer to all my problems," and I believe that is so true. The most beautiful time in my life was 3 years ago while I was serving time in Salt Lake County jail. At first it was such a frightening, fearful, and devastating time for me. But over the months as my spirit began to return to me, life became so beautiful and peaceful, and I was very much "in acceptance" of everything Life was so amazing–yes, even in jail!
After listening to your podcast, I have begun to make a conscious effort to return to that place of mind. Each day I take time out to gripe! Yep! Ge all my griping out! Some days it’s the deepest insecurities, the shame that underlies the feelings I have of low self-worth, but most days it’s just the everyday inconveniences of life; my boss doesn’t like me, my pants are too tight today, my boyfriend didn’t say or do the right thing … I could go on and on! And trust me, some days I do!!! And then, when I’m done complaining, I accept. I open myself to just BE where I am right now. This is my life — it is what it is. And if my life can be beautiful in jail, then my life can be beautiful today. Although I may not be my bosses favorite person, I am a good employee and so grateful to have a job. I may be a little overweight, but I really am beautiful! Sometimes my boyfriend may not say or do the right thing, but I know he loves me, and really, who says or does the "right" thing all the time anyway?
As I have been practicing acceptance, my gratitude is also growing. I start to see that glimmer of beauty I once felt so strongly, and my spirit begins to feel joy. Thank you so much for reminding me of this practice! I look forward to hearing more from you! Thank you for taking the time to share your wisdom with me!
Chantelle F.
Author Margaret Ruth is one of Utah’s most popular intuitives and the author of Superconscious Connections: The Simple Psychic Truths of Perfectly Satisfying Relationships (Oct. 2010 and now shipping on Amazon.com). Contact Psychic Margaret Ruth on her Facebook page, email mr@margaretruth.com or call 801-575-7103. You can also get details on private readings, Margaret’s classes and blog at www.margaretruth.com. Margaret Ruth has been on radio, television, published in newspapers and magazines and major websites.
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