There are few stories that make me sit up pin-straight, eyes glued to the television. But the news of Ted Kennedy’s death, the loss of a larger-than-life icon, a man who was been in the political spotlight since the day I was born, affected me in a personal and deep way.
He was the most public member of the Kennedy dynasty, the youngest sibling who so resembled big brother JFK and RFK. But for decades he has been much more than a kid bro. He was arguably the most powerful force in Congress, so established in his position that he could work confidently and passionately for issues like health care reform and the rights of the less fortunate. He did it all with an infectious energy and focus that charmed even his fiercest opponents.
“He died the way he lived,’’ an emotional longtime Kennedy staffer told The Boston Globe. “Fully in the moment, with incredible courage. He knew exactly what was going on. He wasn’t afraid. And given everything that he had been through his entire life, was always optimistic and knew that this country’s best days always [were] ahead.’’
Kennedy’s optimism was especially noteworthy since nobody would have faulted him for being more glum. He lived through numerous personal tragedies, including the deaths of three brothers at a young age, but his zest for life seemed to buoy everyone around him. In addition to his work in the Senate, he served as a willing patriarch to the extended Kennedy clan, happily acting as a father figure to nieces and nephews who were left fatherless as children. He was also an avid sailor, and CNN reported he was thrilled when his wife, Vicki, gave him singing lessons one birthday because he so enjoyed belting out show tunes.
Yes, we all know he was not perfect. But his ability to rise up after a grave error such as Chappaquiddick is also a testament to his iron will and commitment to helping those with no other public advocate.
Earlier this month, I wrote about the passing of Eunice Kennedy Shriver, Ted’s older sister, and argued that she was a Kennedy original who avoided scandal and quietly helped people with intellectual disabilities. By contrast, there was nothing quiet about Ted Kennedy. Yes, he had his flaws, but his very being served as a role model for the nation. Perhaps his own family summed up his life best in their public statement.
“We’ve lost the irreplaceable center of our family and joyous light in our lives, but the inspiration of his faith, optimism, and perseverance will live on in our hearts forever. We thank everyone who gave him care and support over this last year, and everyone who stood with him for so many years in his tireless march for progress toward justice, fairness, and opportunity for all. He loved this country and devoted his life to serving it. He always believed that our best days were still ahead, but it’s hard to imagine any of them without him.”
Ted Kennedy rightfully carved out a respectful place in American history. The lion of the Senate is roaring no more, but his impressive legacy will live on forever.
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RIP. In spite of his flaws, he truly is an inspiring spirit.