Sexy is the delighted smile caught across the room. Eyes lighting up at a glance. Slow, sensual lovemaking. Being happy for no reason. A satisfying rearrangement of art or furniture. Sexy is an impromptu jam – with musical instrument, voice or body. A touch, a scent. An openness to the moment.
Sexy is a tingling, an energy flow.
Sex itself is sexy when S.E.X. =
Synchronized
Energy
eXchange
or
Shared
Energy
eXchange.
Tantric sex is sexy. It involves the eyes, the touch, the senses. The mind listening to the heart is sexy. Nature is sexy. A leaf unfurling, a bud releasing into bloom. The rich dark earth. Soft breeze caressing skin. The night sky, the full moon. Stars. Sunrise. Surprises.
A great relationship is sexy. Waking up in love. The first rush of hot chemical connection is definitely sexy. But then sometimes sexy gets lost in the chaos of family, friends, home, health and career.
Sexy can be recaptured. It’s always there, in the very core of our being. Our inner joy. Sexy isn’t what we do, it’s who we are.
Diana Daffner
www.IntimacyRetreats.com
You are so beautiful in your words Diana. Sex is all about energy exchange. Sex is also about evolution and in human beings our sexuality defines our humanness especially female sexuality. Your blog did not come up on the feeling sexy list so add feeling sexy to your taglines. love and light, Stuart http://stuartmarkberlin.com
Definitely, sexy is who we are and what we make out of ourselves. It is in every core of our being. It is a part of us though it does not define us.