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Far Better To Dare Mighty Things

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One of my favorite quotes in the world is Theodore Roosevelt’s, “Far Better to Dare Mighty Things”.

“Far better to dare mighty things, to win glorious triumphs, even though checkered by failure, than to take rank with those poor souls who neither enjoy nor suffer much, in the gray twilight that knows neither victory nor defeat.”

No one on earth lives this wisdom more than one of our Project Athena “Survivors”, Alli Morgan. I created Project Athena to help women survivors of medical or other traumatic setbacks achieve their adventurous dreams.

When Alli was 15 years old, she tore her ACL in a soccer game. She went in for a routine surgery to fix her ACL and was progressing toward recovery until she faced intense pain and couldn’t advance further in her therapy. It was discovered in an x ray that a screw was lodged in the joint and the replaced ACL was too long. So she underwent a second surgery to correct the first. A few weeks after her second surgery, a staph infection set in, and her surgical wound refused to close. The ligaments and hardware in her knee became septic and were removed, but the infection continued to spread.

Over the next four years, which were spent on crutches, Alli endured over 40 surgeries and spent a collective 15 months in the hospital, missing college. To literally add insult to injury, her leg had become irrevocably locked straight, and no surgeon could provide her with an answer about whether she would ever be able to bend that leg or walk again. So at the very young age of 20, Allie decided to make a very brave decision to avoid the “gray twilight” her life had become, and she dared to do a very mighty thing.

She decided to become an elective above the knee amputee to gain her life back. She applied for a grant to become one of our Project Athena “Athenas” for the Keys to Recovery Adventure, which is a kayak and bike ride from Key Largo to Key West. She completed all 120 miles of that journey in 2012 surrounded by a supportive group of fundraising gods and goddesses in and crossed the finish line with her new bionic leg and her new life. She’s now a member of the US Paralympic Skeleton Team.

For me, Alli truly embodies Theodore Roosevelt’s Far Better To Dare Mighty Things quote, because she knew that there would be fear, failure, and pain along the way….but a far bigger fear for her was to take rank with those poor souls who neither enjoy much nor suffer much in the gray twilight that knows neither victory nor defeat. She knew her life would be harder in many ways, but as she said in an interview, “I didn’t know if I was going to get my life back or what would ultimately happen, I just knew I had to try”. Brave words, from a brave young lady who would much rather have victory or defeat than what ifs.

So what is your gray twilight? How are you in limbo in your life? It’s time to channel your inner Alli Morgan and dare mighty things!


Robyn Benincasa is a World Champion Adventure Racer, 3x Guinness World Record Kayaker, San Diego City Firefighter, 10x Ironman Triathlete, sought-after leadership speaker, New York Times Bestselling author of ‘How Winning Works’, proud owner of 2 bionic metal hips, and the Founder and CEO of The 501c3 Project Athena Foundation, which helps survivors live an adventurous dream as part of their recovery. In her spare time, Robyn’s favorite hobby is inspiring people to do insane, life affirming things like run their first triathlon, start their own business, hike the Grand Canyon Rim to Rim, or kayak and ride 100 miles from Key Largo to Key West. For more information visit www.robynbenincasa.com and www.projectathena.org.

The Incredible Smugness Of Those Who Do Nothing

Over 100 years ago, Theodore Roosevelt gave his famous "Man In The Arena" speech in Paris. He was identifying a trait of mankind that has existed essentially forever where those who don’t do critique and complain about those who do. TR, of course, was proclaiming this long before the avalanche of new media made the media mushroom cloud that explodes on someone who is trying to do well so much larger and so much overwhelming.

These days, the criticism of those who do try by those who don’t even try is mind-boggling loud. It can be loudest when the issue is of a celebrity or someone who is well known trying to do something to make the world a better place. Almost as the person opens his voice, the cries of those who do nothing begin to roar.

I find the incredible smugness of those who do nothing to be, frankly, disgusting. Time and time again I have seen it, on the work of our clients. I, however, salute those who try even if their attempts are imperfect, even if they fail, because they try and we should salute them. As John F Kennedy said, paraphrasing Luke, "To those whom much is given, much is expected.

In the United States, there are thousands, tens of thousands of people who have made enormous massive sums of money or achieved an incredible level of fame. Instead of criticizing Leonardo DiCaprio when he uses his celebrity to drive awareness of the environment, why don’t we call out the movie stars of his level that simply take the money and hide out in the Hollywood Hills? Instead of criticizing Bono for his tireless work on behalf of those less fortunate in Africa, why don’t we criticize the other rock stars who have never done anything for everyone?

What has happened to our society when trying to help those are less fortunate is ripe for criticism? Do we really raise our children by saying don’t help others, and make sure you mock those that do?

So I salute anyone who tries. Who stands up and takes the bullets and the cheap shots, the snide remarks and the shakes of the heads. Or better yet as TR said:

"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena, whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood; who strives valiantly; who errs, who comes short again and again, because there is no effort without error and shortcoming; but who does actually strive to do the deeds, who knows great enthusiasms, great devotions; who spends himself in a worthy cause; who at the best knows in the end the triumph of high achievement, and who at the worst, if he fails, at least fails while daring greatly, so that his place shall never be with those cold and timid souls who neither know victory or defeat"

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