Women-Friendly Porn? Yes, It’s Possible

Looking for some online smut to watch with your partner-in-crime–or just by yourself? Certainly, there’s no shortage of porn, nudity and other X-rated material when you are surfing the web. But what if you are getting bored of seeing the same bleached blond sorority-type with the pierced nipples and boob job getting gang-banged by five douchey-looking bros in some guy’s apartment? 

Not all porn sites are created equal. And contrary to popular belief, not all porn has to be just about some dude getting off on dominating some chick with a spray-on tan. Is it possible that porn can be about celebrating female pleasure, too? 

And contrary to another popular belief, not all males enjoy watching Barbie-doll lookalikes– and actually would prefer to see very real-looking women achieve orgasm on their own without the help of any studly male "professors" or "gynecologists."

I asked one male acquaintance for his recommendations of non-mainstream, women-friendly porn sites that fit his erotic cup of tea. Coupled with my own internet research, I have found other additional resources for women-friendly porn and other erotic websites that challenge the traditional notions of porn for the heterosexual male gaze–or are still for dudes, but at least look way more interesting. 

Enjoy your smut and celebrate some non-fake human sexuality. And let’s GET IT ON.

BeautifulAgony.Com. Feel completely dirty from head to toe without seeing a single naked body. The premise of Beautiful Agony is very simple: it is an ongoing archive of videos submitted from men and women all over the world, with one format: a single person on camera, shot from the neck up, masturbating himself or herself to complete orgasm. Audio included. No matter what gender, ethnicity, nationality, age, sexuality, body type you like to fantasize about, there’s gotta be something for everyody. Plus, everyone loves a good orgasm! 

IFeelMyself.Com. Just like what the URL says: videos of real women touching themselves. Sexy and inspirational for both men and women, for different reasons.

IShotMyself.Com. With a digital camera, that is. Whether you want to play with your inner naughty exhibitionist, get over your own stupid body image issues, or do an anonymous eff-you to an ex-boyfriend who didn’t like your body, you are invited to post your own anonymous nudie photos of yourself with scores of other women of all ages, shapes and backgrounds who have dared to do the same. Simply fascinating to see the diversity of women from all over the world sharing their naked body with the internet.

Le Chagrin. If only this Tumblr still updated! Beautiful erotic photos of men, women, men and women that look more cinematic than anything else. If "classy porn" existed as an actual genre, this would be it.

A FUCK A DAY. Okay, this Tumblr is totally for guys. But also sensual visual pleasure of classy and artsy erotic photos for girls who like checking out other girls.  indie porn is another Tumblr that fits in this category.

Here are other great online resources for women-friendly porn: 

The Women’s Guide To Good Porn from Babeland.com. How not surprising that the most women-friendly sex shop has its own porn guide. Check it out. And also check out Babeland’s highly informative resources and sex products! 

 The Smart Girl’s Guide To Porn. A comprehensive guide of porn, for the female perspective, in book form.

PHOTO (cc): Flickr / alexdram

About Yumi Sakugawa

I was born and bred in Southern California. I graduated from UCLA with a degree in Fine Art and Japanese. Now I'm a part of the Intent.com team as an online editorial producer.  I am also a comic book artist and illustrator, and you can find my artwork and comics at www.yumisakugawa.com. Order my Intent meditation comics in the form of a 30-page booklet here! (http://yumisakugawa.bigcartel.com/product/there-is-no-right-way-to-meditate )     Follow me on Twitter @yumisakugawa To see new comics and artwork on a weekly basis, catch me on my art tumblr across the yumiverse  

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9 Responses to Women-Friendly Porn? Yes, It’s Possible

  1. enimrac July 6, 2010 at 6:20 pm #

    awesome….

  2. yumi July 7, 2010 at 12:26 am #

    thank you for your feedback, kafka!

  3. mallika.chopra July 7, 2010 at 8:08 pm #

    I love the fact that this is one of our most popular posts, and yet people dont comment much. So interesting.

    That said, Yumi, I think you wrote this so elegantly and interesting. Its a gutsy topic to take on!

  4. rajeshmsharma July 7, 2010 at 11:21 pm #

    brave, considering the land 'I' live in.

    sincere, earnest, honest, genuine

  5. Razz July 8, 2010 at 7:50 am #

    I do not know what could ever be so elequent about porn.

    It is all an absolute atrocity. It is no wonder our country is becoming the playground of satan and his cohorts.

  6. Kristen Thurman July 8, 2010 at 8:07 am #

    Kama Sutra can be streamed from Netflix. No bad plot, theatrics, or hard porn, just erotic suggestions. Turn down the soundtrack and play your own music. It's a fun way to get things heated up / creative juices flowing once in a while, in a tasteful way…

  7. yumi July 8, 2010 at 5:22 pm #

    I had no idea that this option was available on Netflix. Thank you for the head's up, Kristen!

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  9. eugene October 21, 2010 at 11:59 am #

    i simply fail to understand the need for porn anymore since i eliminated the need for it in my own life. i came to the personal belief that pornography, no matter how benignly it may be presented, is an exploitation of the physical expression of the sacred union in love of the the divine act of creation. that's what making love means to me and i simply don't believe in its public exploitation for any reason. and as for keeping the juices alive and flowing, my solution to that is simple: i learned to love my wife spiritually with such a passion that it's my heart, and not my genitals, or hers, that make me want her all the time. even old and wrinkly, my heart will always only see her youthful, shining beauty and not be able to resist it. that's the real reason why we close our eyes when we do it, you know? because making love is an act of the heart, not the body. the body is merely the vehicle. at least it is to me. enough, now i'm getting all revved up with no place to go …