Question:
I am a 26 year old woman, married to a wonderful man. I love my husband to bits. I consider myself straight. However, I am strongly convinced that I am very much attached to the previous life I have lived as a man (or any of the lives I lived as a man) in this current life. I do not have a problem with gay people at all. But, some of the time I feel like the experience as a man from a previous life is so strong I cannot overcome. I love (genuinely) women and my husband. Is this the case of mistaken sexual identity or is it possible that I have re-incarnated with some attachment to certain traits I had in my previous lives.
Answer:
It’s hard to say whether your attraction to women is a predilection from your past life or not. You say that the past experience is so strong you can’t overcome it, yet you haven’t described exactly what that experience is. You haven’t mentioned if you have other pronounced masculine qualities that lead you to think you are dominated by male traits.
But I’m not sure it matters where or when this attraction started. It’s more important to determine if this sexual impulse is central to the expression of who you are in this lifetime. If it is, then you need to come to terms with it and stop trying to explain it away.
If your feelings for women feel fundamentally extrinsic to who you are, and are more like a distracting recurring thought than a driving need, then you probably are straight and only need to keep this perspective in mind. In time, your true sexual character will emerge.
Love,
Deepak
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You are suffering form identity crisis. you are confuse with the kind of sexuality since you get attracted to same sex, for me there's nothing-wrong with that it just an affection what's wrong is when you are a married woman yet you are having an extra marital affair with some other woman, that's the point that it will be immoral in the eye of God as well as to the law of morality. The church condemn same sex affair or marriage just like how some people opposes for the <a title="Proposition 8 | Both sides promising appeals" href="http://personalmoneystore.com/moneyblog/2010/08/04/proposition-8/">Proposition 8.
it is my experience over the past 30 years of my life that those distracting, recurring thoughts can actually be enormous, life-changing discoveries. why do they keep recurring, and why do you continue to explain them away. this is something very important to explore.